I started dating, or I would say that I had my first boyfriend when I was 14. Yup as young as that. And he was 17. And yup we fell in love, out of love, in love again and it was an on off thing for almost 4 years. We knew that we needed each other but the point was we couldn't stand each other.
When I was 18, and he was 20 we decided that we had to let go of each other, but we realize everything we've gone through would be a waste if we didn't try at least a little to save this relationship.
And honestly we did. We did make it up because we started off bestfriends really young and no matter what happened, even the bits where we fell in love and fell out of love, the relationship we had for that four amazing years was worth saving.
This year marks the 6th year of our friendship, six years of fights and loves and problems and arguments. Heck, it was worth it. And he is turning 23 tomorrow. My ex, my bestfriend, my friend, my first love, the guy that was there for me most of the time.
Its his birthday tomorrow and I would like to wish him Happy Birthday and thank you for always being there.
You see they say that you can be friends, after falling out of love, with you ex. But I did it. Till this very moment we are friends and we love each other dearly. We love each other too much to let go of what we had. He was the only guy that saw me grow up, till who I am today. He knows me too well.
My point is I believe that lovers can be friends, and you need to be lucky to have this special relationship. And to be lucky, you just have to put your mind to it and have the intention wanting your ex to be your friend. :)
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