I don't know why, but the relationship I have with my close friends, is very close and it makes it look like we have a spark between each other. Its not that I like them in a way that I shouldn't, but that is just how we behave as friend, like acting cute and stuff, and people misconcept our relationship.
It tend to hurt me, for others to have the thought that we like each other or even one of us like the other, and the fact is that, we both know how much we mean to each other. And we are like that, because we are really comfortable with each other. And for us, i don't think its wrong, because our feelings are set straights.
I wish I could just not care what others think about the relationships I have my guy friends. Im sorry that we are close and you don't do things we do although you know him longer than I do. Its just that we bond.
Really well.
I just feel that I shouldn't care about what others think about it. I've talked to a friend about this before, and all he say is that
We know what we have,
Lets not care what others say,
People talk,
You don't make that as a reason for you to leave our friendship.
Well I think what he said is really true. I can't just pretend to be different and not myself around my friend because of what others think of our relationship.
The things that I could do, to maintain my friendship .
1. Ask yourself what matters to you - Definitely my friend rather than the rumors.
2. Remember that they are all not watching you - Maybe some is.
3. Recognize that their opinion can't hurt you - They can unless I don't over think and I careless.
4. Accept that you can't control what people think - ACCEPT IT.!
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