Anyways, English paper today, I can brush up my english by writing here.
It annoys me that sometimes, I know that someone is lying. To be honest, I really don't wanna know who is lying to me Because I just find it really hurtful that sometimes its just very frustrating to know that they had been lying.
I came to core of it, thinking why does lie to us. Then I went on thinking, why do I lie, why does everyone just live with this lie. I admit, that there are times, I feel that, lying is so much better than telling the truth and getting judged. And sometimes lying seems like the only way, to not answer questions you don't wish too.
Don't get me wrong with this, I am not telling that lying is a good trait, just for the sake of not being judged or hurt, it seems much better.
So why do we all lie at times.
One of the main reason that I came up with was the fact that, people accept so much from us, and we feel frustrated that we can't reach to the standard someone wishes us to be. We do really live in a society that always judges, you can deny that. But my society, it never been a day that some has come up to me and say anything nice, without wanting something from me. And this is different with my friends and family because they say nothing nice to me.
I think this do pressure a person with the fact that they want to blend in wherever they are, and sometimes, blending is hard. World today, beauty or money, unless you find those who accept you for who you are. If you don't, 99% of the world consist of people who would do anything to be rich. What they don't understand being rich is not a goal that you wanna have for your life time. Having sufficient money to live life and make yourself happy is good enough. Why does one want so much in life. Whats the point having so much money, but living a lie?
Right now, i feel like a only person wanting to change people's perspective that money is not everything and I feel weak already. I don't think I would even have the power to change it because everyone is so sure that expensive stuff, cars, house, life is everything they want to achieve in life.
What happens when you achieved all of it already. You can die peacefully or what?
Happiness is not money and happiness doesn't start when you have money because
Happiness is not something you postpone for the future.
No one has to lie, or be better to live to you standard of living. A person, should be better because they want to be better. Don't force them to be better, don't pressure them to be the one with all. Even if my family have all the money in the world could,
I don't want a person to judge me because of my family have carved in life, I want you to judge me for what I am gonna carved in the short period of time.
One thing that I've learnt in life is that, money doesn't stay and money surely does not give one happiness.
If you wanna live life, give all you have to something that is much more worth it like having good friends, and this can be done by accepting your peers as they are.